So, in Gal 5 (see part 1 for background and direction) we saw some pretty clear indicators of the fruit in our lives if we were in fact living a compassionate servanthood life tempered with wisdom we gain blessings.
Yet so many people say you must be like Christ in order to be holy didn’t Christ serve and give his very life? Well, the question I often ask is not should we serve somewhere but how much and in what. “What is God motivating you to do within His kingdom (uh, that’s in the world or “church”) to bring Him glory?” When we receive salvation, we gave our lives to God to not make our lives about us but about Him.
I know I heard the Lord this weekend after I went to a corner to cry because I was terribly hurting at the prospect of saying, No. Some wouldn’t believe that about my personality. I was clearly in an authoritative role overseeing volunteers and had needed to direct many people that day, however, I too was falling into snares and pot holes in this journey of servanthood.
If “serving” is also your “job” then we have to be extra careful to constantly seek direction from the Lord. Laying aside personal feelings and focusing on what the Lord has for us.
A dear brother and elder in the Body of Christ was there for me and gave me great insight. God does not require works it’s true, and His love for me extends beyond mistakes and far beyond my sin but His love, if I believe anything at all, MUST be free. It must be a love for Christ but ALSO the wisdom of the Lord given freely. NO strings attached and no demands except to Love.
If serving is severing things in your life you know shouldn’t be severed but you feel you need to serve any way…. you may be captured by the wrong thing or wrong thinking.

- Family moment in the park, to help refocus.
It’s not and can never be a commandment of do this or else….(fill in the blank). Our number one commandment was simple and restated over and over: LOVE ONE ANOTHER. We can debate what love is, but the Bible spells that out for us as well in 1 Cor 13. Interesting how so many leaders maniuplate what it means to love God and it somehow involves their own vision - even more frightening is how few people offer Grace to believers who pour out of themselves in servanthood. We have to all be willing to let God’s love be FREE, to let serving be a choice between God and His people and to not cast opportunities to serve as mandates or else.
I have been in “church” walls since I was 8. (Before that time I knew about church but without consistency.) I watched every form of manipulation, guilt, contracts that people or God won’t ____ for you if you don’t _____ for the “church”. Even as far as pastors not praying for sick people if the family didn’t tithe or volunteer. Those things are lies from the very heart of a legalistic perspective. I have heard almost all of the arguements: If you don’t do oversees missions you are missing the Lord./ If you don’t serve this age group or that special interest group you are not hearing from the Lord./ If you aren’t attending church at every time the door is open, choir practice, media run through, sound check, set up, tear down…or whatever, then you are less than. (This list could go on and on and on.)
Folks that may be convenient to say when people like me are recruiting volunteers, but it isn’t the heart of God. Someone turning down a ministry opportunity or not being involved in “YOUR” movement doesn’t make them less in the eyes of the Lord. ~ HIS LOVE HAS TO BE FREE or we all believe a lie. I love working with certain ministry opportunities but when no one shows up to volunteer with me, I can’t take that personally. That’s between them and the Lord. (Although I have to be accountable with people so I do not become judgemental it’s an easy snare to fall into.)
Servanthood is a lifestyle but Christ didn’t wash everyone’s feet and He didn’t heal every sick person and it had nothing to do with not loving each of them. Christ didn’t heal every sick person because he was obedient to his Father’s prompting. Serving with compassion AND wisdom is joyful and fruitful. (see Gal 5) Using wisdom from the Lord has great accomplishments for the cause and the word above even declares we have affection for others, we’re excited about life and we are in peace. We have to trust in God’s plan for ministry, for the people volunteering and for the people not serving but being ministered to. If you aren’t excited about serving Christ for others, and are not in peace (inner peace is not the same as a life of bliss, so I’m speaking here of inner peace) then you need to get with the Lord, and an elder (not with the same organization preferably asking us to volunteer).
Should you(we) be serving? We should find joy, peace, and fulfillment when we are obedient to where & how God prompts and yes, I believe that does involve serving GOD and how He draws you to minister with your time, talents and money. Honestly, I think there is a time for maturity when Titus tells us not everyone should be considered for leadership roles.
There is also a time when we all need some ’40 days’ in the wilderness to stop the cycle of people needing us and focusing on the Lord alone. Jesus did just that, he prepared for time with people by spending time with the Father. Some people are let’s face it just trying to force themselves to serve in some capacity that isn’t what God is guiding them in. That’s a potential for devistating results for them and the service ”opportunity”. *People in my experience that are serving in the wrong roles create turmoil and strife eventually for either themselves or the ministry.
But you want to serve and don’t know where the Lord is leading? First, I wish someone would have told me when I was in my early teens that there were other choices! Honestly, you need to try a few things, ask someone who feeds the homeless to train you and let you try out different volunteer roles! There are thousands of roles within thousands of great organizations that need volunteers. I love most when I hear Christians volunteering in moral roles in the mainstream, because that is showing the Love of Jesus to people who don’t see him every week. Any volunteer role God is moving you in is what will bless your life the most. Please check out ministries that you trust in your area but don’t limit yourself!
This week ‘I was reminded that I don’t always set great boundaries, after many nights without sleep because the work needed to get finished. I had the desire and the ambition to do something with excellence but that can’t be without boundaries. We must be wise in our time (don’t follow my example on this) and I am llways learning. Rest is different than being a slacker…. rest heals. Rest soothes. Rest refreshes. It makes us excited about the next serving opportunity! We all sometimes need to remind ourselves to not grow weary in doing good deeds.
If there isn’t time for you to breathe (or take out the garbage, or have clean clothes) because you volunteer in so many places that you may even neglect your family responsibilites …. um, remember that your spouse, and your kids and sometimes our extended families need to also see Christ-like behavior of servanthood. Christ served the multitudes but always made time for those closest to him, I believe he never wanted there to be a question of his love for them as well as show them how to have healthy boundaries.
“Memphis” and God’s heart. God is no respector of persons. He loves us each with reckless abandon and overwhelming grace. I was blessed to be reminded of the musical this weekend as I often see the very real division that can happen. We can’t fix everything and sometimes we must focus on the small picture in order to make the greatest impact and sometimes we have to focus on the big picture which draws away our time and we need to balance. *Obviously the musical is not a Christian theme, and is missing God’s Love for ALL people.

- A quick pic during a weekend of serving with our kids, ministering Love and fellowship to warn down ministers of the gospel.
If God loved me in the depths of my darkness – regardless if I would ever become a martyr overseas, if I never served His body ….then I too must love regardless of what acts of service I see in others. Just as I serve, I must serve with compassion and wisdom not forsaking God’s counsel or my family. If we believe that Grace, Love, and Mercy are free, and If we believe that the Lord gave the most important command to love – then we must evaluate our motivation and our service according to and within HIS Love for us, not the approval of man. Do you think that sharing the love of Jesus is XYZ? Does that picture have to be the same for every single person? I say we each have a unique calling of how we can volunteer, in what ways do you think you volunteer out of obligation?
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